tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4993961280238067484.post257708620980983892..comments2009-01-12T02:00:50.177-05:00Comments on Tomorrow Never Comes, For It Is Always Today: Relationships &SexAnnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02908272008078570398noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4993961280238067484.post-52407874925133553412008-10-16T17:48:00.000-04:002008-10-16T17:48:00.000-04:00Ann,It's easy for me to say what you should do, bu...Ann,<BR/><BR/>It's easy for me to say what you should do, but I'm not in the relationship; I don't know the dynamics. But I would continue to try dialog, letting him know (<I>without condemning him</I>) that things are hurting you. Somtimes we guys can get self-absorbed, but when we hear our woman say, "<B>they're hurting</B>", we want to respond. I'm gonna give your guy the benefit of the doubt here, "<B>if he still has brain cells working</B>"; he should hear your voice.<BR/><BR/><A HREF="" REL="nofollow">http://underOvr.blogspot.com</A>underOvr (aka The U)https://www.blogger.com/profile/09241293702725984736noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4993961280238067484.post-58887443636959930592008-10-16T09:13:00.000-04:002008-10-16T09:13:00.000-04:00Ann, I hope you got the private message I sent you...Ann, <BR/>I hope you got the private message I sent you. I have gone through asimilar situation. You're not alone.Michael Horvathhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06490946095047002839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4993961280238067484.post-21624201497788405972008-10-15T10:56:00.000-04:002008-10-15T10:56:00.000-04:00I have actually tried those things that you've men...I have actually tried those things that you've mentioned. I've given him a massage, brought him breakfast in bed, little love notes in his lunch bag...etc. I understand he's tired, but this has been going on for a few weeks now. It hurts being ignored when you love someone so much. Sometimes I think it would be easier to be alone. Then maybe it wouldn't hurt so bad.Annhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02908272008078570398noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4993961280238067484.post-42343394113907445052008-10-15T05:58:00.000-04:002008-10-15T05:58:00.000-04:00If the lull in intimacy is brought about by stress...If the lull in intimacy is brought about by stress & work factors, you both may need to take a break from stress.<BR/><BR/>Here's a suggestion: If your partner is stressed & self-focused, try to show him a little comfort [a hot bath, a massage..You get the picture..]<BR/><BR/>Empathy can go a long way in these troubled times! You don't have to blame yourself for this situation, because that only makes things worse. The problem is one of living together. Make your house a home he can find comfort in, and sure as sunshine the sex shall follow.<BR/><BR/>Good Luck.<BR/><BR/>~x~SinfullyAnonAbe's Hearthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04267796917999110008noreply@blogger.com